As long as you can understand your care options and can speak your wishes (you are capable), you will be asked to make decisions and give informed consent for your health care treatments.
Sometimes during cancer treatments, people get very sick for a short time and are not mentally or verbally capable. Examples are bad infections (sepsis), or reactions to the cancer treatments.
If you are not capable, you will need a Substitute Decision Maker. You should decide in advance who you would want to be your Substitute Decision Maker. This person will make health and personal care decisions for you, based on what is important to you.
It's important to talk with your family and Substitute Decision Maker about what matters most to you. This helps them feel more prepared if they ever need to make decisions on your behalf.
1 - You legally name a Substitute Decision Maker
- Use the Enhanced (section 9) Representation Agreement to name your Substitute Decision Maker. This is a legal form. You do not need a notary or lawyer to fill out this form. You can do this yourself.
- A Substitute Decision Maker must be at least 19 years old and has agreed to be your decision maker.
- If you are choosing a Substitute Decision Maker, talk to this person. Make sure they know your wishes and goals for care. Make sure they understand their role in your care.
2 - Choose a Temporary Substitute Decision Maker
- The list of Temporary Substitute Decision Makers is defined by B.C. law:
- Your spouse
- One of your children (equally ranked)
- A parent (equally ranked)
- A grandparent (equally ranked)
- A grandchild (equally ranked)
- Anyone else related to you by birth or adoption
- A close friend
- A peron immediately related to you by marriage
- If no one else qualifies: A Public Guardian and Trustee
- If you are satisfied with who would be your Temporary Substitute Decision Maker, for example your spouse, you can choose that as your option.
- Use the My Temporary Substitute Decision Maker (TSDM) List to show who you would want to speak on your behalf if you are unable. If the order on this list matches your wishes, you don't need an Enhanced Representation Agreement.
- If you are not sure about who would be your Temporary Substitute Decision Maker, or if there may be conflict within your support people, it may be best to do an Enhanced Representation Agreement.
- If you have not identified a Substitute Decision Maker, your health care provider will work down this list to identify the first available person who qualifies and is willing to act as your Temporary Substitute Decision Maker. You cannot change the order of this list.
Some people like to have a family meeting to share their wishes with their larger family and support people, so everyone knows your wishes for future health and personal care.
As your life or your health changes, you will want to update your advance care plan. You can change your plan as many times as you want and whenever you want. Be sure to write down the changes to your plan. Tell your health care team and those you trust.